A wise man once said, "it's not the destination but the journey that counts" I think it was Oprah. I find myself, reminding... (myself) of this daily. We are all going to end up 6 feet under someday, and getting upset about little minute. details seems like a waste of time. I think the same principle can be applied to men, (meaning that) it's not all about getting off, it's the journey of over the river and through the wood and landing on that sweet destination that is equally as important.
However... walking into the room and finding an open destination, well... you have to tap that!